Bridemaid's Posies The bridesmaids usually carry posies which are smaller than the bride's bouquet. The colour and style should match their dresses and the overall scheme of the wedding. If the bridesmaids are very young they may damage flowers by over-handling or grow tired of holding the posy. An alternative may be allow them a small basket which is easier to handle. The bridesmaids may also carry handbags filled and decorated with flowers which is an alternative or addition to the traditional bouquet.